I was born in …I don’t know what year.. But it has been a long time, hasn’t it?

Smiled the old lady, who’s selling sweet treats on the pavement of Yoyarkarta – the time capsule of Indonesia. Though she went on and talk a lot of about how it was, what she’s doing. Only this part of interview stuck with me.

I admired this lady for her view of time. In a way, she was implying in a very positive way I’m not sure if it’s important to know the year I was born?

This concept of eternity in relationship is particularly emphasize, sometimes it became illogical. A lover who fell ill and died after 2 years of being together, that love became eternal. A couple who’s been together for 5 years, with a kid, then separated. That love is fairly short.

For some reason, there’s no trial and error in a relationship. We became extremely judgemental.

Ps : my mind is not with me today, it’s been a very long day and I finally have a rest. I will continue this topic on another day when my mind is clearer. Apology for the mess